Showing posts with label Immigrant. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Immigrant. Show all posts

Monday, 19 November 2012

Happy Thanksgiving US of Eh?


Here in Canada, we've already celebrated our version of Thanksgiving, earlier in the month, while this week our neighbours to the south celebrate what we often refer to as ‘American Thanksgiving.’

Tourists from other continents coming to Canada and the States may not be able to see the differences between our two nations. We’re so similar, and also so very different – but most of our differences are ideological instead of cultural.

American’s have an enormous sense of passion and national pride in being American. Even most of those from other lands that become permanent residents fall in love with American nationalism.

In Canada, we have pride in our nation – if your parents were born here. Those from other lands talk about the benefits of living here, but always complain about how they miss home, and are just here so their families can have a better life. Often they move into pockets where others from their homeland settled, so they don’t have to participate in Canadian culture, society, or – sadly – with anyone that doesn't speak their language.

When people immigrate to the United States, they become Americans. They pledge allegiance to the flag, and swear they’ll uphold the values and laws of the land.
When people immigrate to Canada, they become hyphenated Canadians, many don’t speak either of our official languages (English or French) and although they live according to our laws, they certainly don’t embrace Canadian values, preferring to continue living as they would in their homeland.

When parents with kids come to America, they enrol their kids in American schools, and hope their children will realize the potential of the American Dream.

When parents with kids come to Canada, they intentionally move into areas where there are schools with other children from their culture. In many cases, they have special schools which are cultural-specific to their homeland, so their kids although living in Canada, are raised with the same values and beliefs back home.

Settled immigrants in the States that have made it for themselves, embrace the American Dream, and feel a sense of obligatory pride in helping other American’s realize that dream, hiring other American’s regardless of race or culture to expand and grow the American economy.

Settled immigrants in Canada lack a sense in being Canadian, and having only done business with others from their homeland, they only hire others of the same race or culture of themselves.
They take away jobs and opportunities for those who were born outside of their culture, which although it may grow their business, it harms the Canadian economy, and eventually may harm their business, which is in that Canadian economy.

Canada and the States are both highly prosperous, safe, democracies which both have a lot to be thankful for during our mutual Thanksgivings.

Though, being Canadian, sometimes I’m envious of my American neighbours  as it appears they have more to be thankful for going forward, because as more people come from other lands to our distinct countries, America grows as a nation, while we Canadians struggle to maintain a sense of nationhood.

Wednesday, 16 May 2012

Don't Make Eye Contact In Today's World

I've always enjoyed the great outdoors. When I was a kid, my dad and I would go for nice bike rides along the various bike paths of the city.

Some of my fondest memories growing up are riding with my dad through the parks, ravines and beaches of Toronto.

On sunny Sundays our travels took us through not just some of the most beautiful parks in the city, but also the most populated. Maybe it’s our long Canadian winter, or maybe it's just a sense of nature calling us, but on a lazy sun-drenched Sunday, these parks were packed with people.

Families would be walking slowly on the paths, soaking up the sun. Couples would be walking hand-in-hand, enjoying the romantic allure of nature. Kids would be playing ball, tag or other fun outdoor games, running free in the urban jungle.

As we slowly rode through the crowds, we'd smile and nod to those we passed by. They in turn would smile and nod hello back, some even saying 'hi' or commenting on how wonderful a day it was.

Time shift forward to today, and you'd swear you were entering a completely different world. People avoid eye contact at all costs. And if your eyes happen to meet, they are met with unwelcoming hostility instead of warmth.

I went for a walk in the park near my home the past couple of weekends. The weather was perfect -- sunny and warm. As in the past, the park was filled with others all enjoying the good weather.

Or were they?

They seemed to be enjoying themselves up until our paths crossed. Just as we past each other they would flash a look of hatred and anger my way, despite my warm smile.

Maybe I hadn't smiled at all -- I thought. Maybe it was my fault they showed displeasure at my presence?

As I continued my walk, I'd continue to smile and nod hello to others as I passed them. That's the Canadian thing to do. I noticed that the only people that were not responding positively back were those obviously not from around here.

Canadians warmly greeted me as I strode past. Others gave me the hairy eyeball, making me feel most unwelcome.

Perhaps, I thought, back in there country of origin no one made contact with others out of fear of repression? Maybe other places around the globe are so hostile that no one dare make eye contact?

Then I overheard one kid ask his father: “why'd that white man smile at you dad?”

The parent responded in another language as I walked past.

I never figured I was being evil eyed because I was white.

We Canadians warmly welcome others to our once great land, only to get slammed for not being the same race of those we welcome?

What a horrible world we live in, when parents teach their kids to hate others not like them. What a horrid future we as a country and a civilization will be, when others think it okay to discriminate against others not just like them.

What an awful world to live in when a smile 'hello' is used to teach others to hate.